Do you have any controversial and unpopular K-pop opinions?

Was there any reason to make the curry song? The answer is yet again, no.

This is actually what happens when fans think they own their idols. Of course, they perform for us. They are what they are because of their fanbase but one must remember that its their passion, hardwork and dedication which made them what they’re today. Sure, when you’re a celebrity, you’ll get hate, you’ll get criticized, but for reasons as insignificant as this? Not fair. I’ve even seen people defending Seungri, making fanpages for him.

I will never understand the concept or idea of multistans being not loyal enough as they stan multiple groups.

What product failed in the market but was successful when used for something else?

With the recent controversies of certain K-pop idols saying the N-word, a racial slur, a very disrespectful thing for the black people, I think its high time to realize that most K-pop idols don’t care about the rest of the world, if they have massive popularity in Korea.

To be honest, they won’t apologize, and even if they do, it won’t matter. As a popular group, with a massive fanbase in Korea, their career is secured. The only reason KIOF apologized is because they realized they don’t have a strong fanbase in Korea to keep them going.

Was there any reason to say the N-word? No.

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What may be too many groups for you, may not be too many for others. Everybody has different definition of being a fan. So, it’s better to quit the game of “who is superior than whom” between solo group stans and multistans, and just enjoy music and appreciate it for the sake of it.

On the other hand, BLACKPINK members, Jennie, Rose and Lisa, haven’t apologized yet, whose video has been recently leaked saying the N-word.

—— kiss the stars,

Can we trust the Bible when Constantine and the First Council of Nicaea took out many books of the Bible and altered existing translation by removing things?

Was there any reason to mock the Bharatnatyam mudras? No.

I’m speaking about Chan’s situation here. You all know how he is, as a person. He is kind, comforting and loving, and that’s the prime reason you all pick on him. K-pop stans in general don’t deserve such kindness, it seems, because I’m confirmed, you people can fight over the dumbest argument ever.

Was there any reason to conduct such a theme in a birthday live? No.

Why do some films seem to date/age so badly?

You’re a K-pop fan because you chose to be one. Love them because you appreciate their music and dance, and if their life goals differ from that of yours, then there’s no point to be insecure.

All of these were unnecessary, while I understand a person can be unaware, but when you repeat it, it shows that you’re knowingly doing it. Racism has been a very grave concern, even in the recent times, and using it as an aesthetic, just to fit it into your stereotypical view of that particular culture is purely disgusting.

In this context, I’d like to add this issue where repeatedly, Indian culture has been mocked too, and just like Black fans felt disrespectful, Indians too did and demanded apologies. What amazes me that they continue to do this repeatedly.

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Anyone’s culture can’t be your aesthetic, it isn’t that shallow. It took them decades to fight against the wrongdoings they have faced, and is facing till date. It took us 200 whole years to have an independent India.

We all, particularly the black people, demand a proper apology. On one hand KISS OF LIFE did apologize two times, but it does sound shallow, to be very honest and it seems like they did it just to prevent themselves from getting cancelled or called out further, as another member Julie, did mouth the N-word previously.

I don’t know why certain K-pop fans can’t just appreciate idols without thinking, “wow, they’re so better than me, I feel insecure.”

Is it appropriate for parents to discipline their child in public if the child is being rude, disrespectful, and unruly towards them? Why or why not?

While I get it why someone is insecure, but sometimes it’s too much. Today, I was talking with a classmate who listens to K-pop, but doesn’t call herself a “K-pop fan”. I asked her why and she said that she feels bad because they’re earning in millions, some even being of her same age and while she’s just a college student.

So, is your life goal only to earn money anyhow? Of course they’re earning money, of course they’re talented and famous, but have you put atleast one percent of the effort like them? No. Then how can you expect to be as rich and as popular as them. I don’t think this can be a reason or excuse for not being a K-pop stan.

And the reason why this hate for Chan continues is that they know it won’t be an issue. People will speak against them, and after a while it will be forgotten, he will probably “apologize” or remain upset and this cycle will go on and on.

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It’s a personal choice of a person, to enjoy music or content from different groups and idols. It’s a personal choice to know or not know everything about their favourite groups. One can be a fan both by knowing or not knowing all possible information about a group.

Unpopular? I don’t know. Controversial? Maybe.

I mean, why is there a question of loyalty in the first place? Can a person not be a fan of more than one or two groups? It is a parasocial relationship after all, between the idol and the fans. Of course, some idols, some groups hold a special place in our heart as their music, thoughts and messages might have helped us during tough times by providing comfort, reassurace and strength, but that does not restricts us from being fans of other groups.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

In a world where massive issues like racism are overlooked delibartley just because their priority list got ticked, why would they even consider Indians? We’re just like shadows to them, we don’t exist.

We, the International K-pop fans have poured our love and time listening this genre of music, by appreciating it and acknowledging it, but sadly, most of K-pop won’t do the same for us, and it’s high time we must realize it.

K-pop fans often make one specific person their punching bag because they know no matter how much people speak against it, they can start their hatred with the same enthusiasm next time.

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kiss my scars.